Sunday, September 21, 2014

Keeping the secret of "The Crying Game"

I had a hard time finding picture directly related to my blog because it focused mainly on the gender reveal in the movie The Crying Game, so I found this picture intriguing because it gave a sense of where transgender people stood in the US, which is not too promising to our culture today. 

From the readings assigned over the past few classes, I gravitated more towards Bornstein's, Gender Outlaw. This reading as a whole focused on some key concepts such as gender defenders, gender outlaws, and gender terrorists. Bornstein writes as a transgender herself, so the reader sees through the eyes of a transgender person, about why the public is afraid of breaking the gender binary, and just how strong the gender binary is in culture today still. The section I particularly found enthralling was that pertaining to the movie The Crying Games and how secretive the movie became because of its content. This portion pulled me in because it really had me asking the question “why”. “Why” questions came in my head for almost every sentence I read from the reading, but these ones stuck out more to me. The part of the reading that also goes along with the whole secret of the movie is the vomiting of the character Fergus when he finds out the woman he was attracted to had a penis and was actually ttransgender This section can be found on pages 72-74.
While reading through this, I had a lot of ideas and thoughts racing through my mind. The first question I asked myself was, why keep this part of the movie a secret, for the reasons that people did? If the character in the movie was transgender why did the public not want people to know about it? Were the viewers themselves so repulsed by the thought of a transgender person that it was worth keeping the whole movie under the radar to the public? This thought process by the people watching the movie at the time just confused me. However the reading cared to explain the “secret” in words of transgender people as a whole, Bornstein writes, “I think the ‘keep the secret’ response on the part of the public was more a reflection of how the gender defenders of this culture would like to see transgender people: as a secret, hidden away in some closet” (page 74). In a way this made clear sense to me, because we as a culture are uneducated about anything or anyone that lies outside of the gender binary, or even still people who are gay confuse the majority of the public today (although I personally believe we have come a long way with that from where it started at). However, once I put more thought into it, and broke down what it was that Bornstein was saying, it made more sense to me. Not in a good way, but in a way that made me disappointed in the public, and our culture back when the movie was popular, and even now.
To further understand this quote I’d like to try and define gender defender as Bornstein does. After finishing the reading I thought that gender defender is any person, group of people, or anything particularly in general that keeps the gender binary. For example, a few gender defenders we named in class were gay bashers, some religious organizations, pop culture, family heritage, etc. Each one sticks to the idea that there are two genders and no more, and if you do not fit into one of those genders you are truly an outcast. This helps the reader to understand the quote more because now they know that “gender defenders” of this culture do not want to see transgender people at all, because transgender people threaten the binary that they all know and have known their whole lives. This correlates with the movie in a sense that the majority of the public were gender defenders, and for the most part still are gender defenders, and they did not want to spread awareness of the transgender people by addressing the movie to anyone. My thoughts on this are that if they had in their minds that if they were to address the movie to friends or family it could possibly bring awareness to the public at the time, about transgender people, which could POSSIBLY lead to the acceptance of transgender people, and that would just be far too much for anyone to handle, especially the gender defenders. Because if they public knew more about transgender people alone, this could start to shatter the gender binary, and too many people today in culture are afraid of change, small or large, and to people this would be too big of a change.
I honestly think change is the main reason we as a whole are in the dark about those who do not fit within the gender binary, because as a people we are afraid of change and new things. New means we do not yet know what it can do to harm or hurt us, and we are less educated about it. The public likes to know exactly what is going on all the time, which is just how it works, or at least my opinion on how I believe us as a culture handle change. Especially since this change which has been occurring for a long time but no one cares to surface, is about a subject matter which has been around since the beginning of time: boys and girls. Something that has been so solidified (at least we thought), and this change could completely destroy that sense of comfort for our culture of something we know and are used to. Another contributing factor to the lack of change in our gender binary is that most men would feel threatened if women were to become men and have the same power as a “real” man. Or vice versa, if a man becomes a woman it is more so downgrading because why, if you are born a man and have powers and dominance as a man has and is born with, would you want to become submissive and lose all the “power” (for lack of a better term) that you have? It does not make sense in the eyes of people who disagree with change, or who do not understand that people are born the way they are, and they cannot change that.

My question is, does anyone think we as a culture will we ever be accepting of not only transgender people, but to everyone who disrupts the gender binary? And if so, why has nothing been done to change the harsh negativity towards these “gender terrorists”, since they have been around forever almost (based off of previous readings we learned transgender people have been around for as long as time)?
The article I found online to contribute to my blog is based off of the movie The Crying Game, and I found it interesting because it says the "secret" was kept for the hype of the movie... and that "the secret is something that has caught on in a way in America", which I believe is a discrete way of agreeing with the fact the world is not ready to break the gender binary. I could be wrong though, just my opinion I thought it was interesting because it addressed "the secret" directly. 

I also really liked this cartoon because it hits home for the fact that our culture has not yet accepted transgender people, and how against it the US really is. 

Pictures: 
First one- http://jmuwomensstudentcaucus.wordpress.com/2013/10/09/trans-characters-take-the-mainstage/
sccond one- http://wtfpoliticalcartoons.tumblr.com/post/21708993637/tw-transphobia-this-comic-can-be-read-in-two

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